Spark easy, relaxed conversations
with your teen to build their Confidence Naturally!
With Teen Chat Cards
Turn advice about confidence as a teen into meaningful, open conversations
without the eye rolls or one-word answers.
Watching your teen struggle with confidence and self-worth can leave you questioning everything.
It’s completely normal to feel a mix of worry, frustration, and uncertainty as your teen tries to figure out who they are and where they fit.
There are so many moments that can shake their confidence…
The Hardest Part?
Talking To Them About It
…but you also don’t want their confidence to quietly slip away.
…but they brush it off or shut the conversation down.
…but they’re pulling away and figuring things out on their own.
…but they keep everything inside and act like they’re fine.
…but their self-doubt shows up in ways that are hard to reach.
- Maybe I'm just not the kind of mom they need
- I can't fix this and that terrifies me
- Why do I always say the wrong thing?
You're Not Alone!
Your teen definitely needs YOU
We can fix this together
And I've got a script for what to say:
Kristen’s Chat Cards are incredible conversation starters. The way she presents scenarios with open-ended answers allows parents and teens to approach difficult topics in a way that isn’t intimidating or forced. You will love these cards!
Parenting writer, speaker, educator
BrookeRomney.com
Brooke
THE SIMPLE WAY TO BUILD YOUR TEEN’S CONFIDENCE—
These cards make talking about self-worth, identity,
and confidence feel natural, engaging, and stress-free!
- 50 Chat Cards on Confidence
- Print them back to back and keep them at the dinner table or in the car
- Download them to your phone for easy access anywhere
Picture This:
- You’re sitting across from your teen at the kitchen table, both of you half-distracted by your phones. Instead of competing with the screen, you pull out a card and ask a question. They pause. Look up. Think. A small smile shows up before they answer. Just like that, you’ve got their attention.
- Dinner is winding down, and everyone starts reaching for their devices. Instead, you grab a card and read a question out loud. Your teen rolls their eyes. “Seriously?” But then they answer. One comment turns into a conversation, and suddenly no one’s on their phone. The whole family is talking, laughing, connecting.
- ✔ You’re in the car, your teen staring out the window. You ask, “When do you feel most confident?” They shrug at first. Then they start talking. About school. About friends. About things you didn’t even know they were thinking about. An ordinary moment turns into real insight they’ll carry with them.
- It’s late at night, and your teen comes into your room with their phone in hand. They don’t say much, but you can tell something’s off. You ask a simple question from a card. They open up. What follows is honest, real, and deeper than anything you’d get from “How was your day?” These are the conversations that build trust.
Kelly
Home and Family Blogger
CityGirlMeetsFarmBoy.com
10 Reasons You’ll Love the CONFIDENCE edition
of the Teen Chat Cards:
- Start Easy Chats: Prompts make starting conversations simple.
- No Guesswork: Prompts handle the hard part.
- Helps Them Open Up: Teens feel more comfortable sharing.
- Brings You Closer: Helps you understand their world.
- Gives you the tools to talk about confidence in a way they’ll actually hear—and helps them build self-worth, handle comparison, and trust themselves in real-life situations.
- Leads to Real Talks: Encourages meaningful discussions.
- Builds Empathy: Encourages understanding of others.
- Keeps The Converstaion On Track: Stay focused and productive.
- Makes It Fun: A simple way to bond together.
Teen Chat Cards: Confidence Edition
The must-have tool for talking about Confidence in a way that gets your teen to open up,
think for themselves, and actually engage in the conversation.
Confidence
Chat Cards
- 50 Chat Cards with tricky CONFIDENCE scenarios your teen will likely face
- Print them back to back and keep them at the dinner table or in the car
- Download them to your phone for easy access anywhere
Best deal!
The Complete Collection
- 200 Chat Cards across 4 topics (phones, friends, dating, and confidence)
- Print them back to back and keep them at the dinner table or in the car
- Download them to your phone for easy access anywhere
Often we expect kids to know so many things–but they don’t know unless we teach them! These thought provoking cards provide opportunities for really great discussions and non-threatening teaching opportunities.
Jen
RaiseTheGood.com
Kids and media expert
You could keep guessing...
You could continue hoping your teen will open up about their confidence…
You could continue feeling frustrated by one-word answers…
You could continue struggling to find the right words…
You could continue wondering what your teen is thinking…
You could continue worrying about how others shaping your teen’s confidence…
...or You Could Start Connecting
…or you could create conversations that actually make them want to talk.
…or you could spark meaningful discussions effortlessly.
…or you could have 50 expert-designed prompts that take the pressure off.
…or you could hear their thoughts firsthand in a way that builds trust.
…or you could guide them through real-life scenarios before they happen.
Got Questions?
How do I use Chat Cards?
Each card has two sides:
1) A Scenario that your teen will likely face at some point. Share the scenario with your teen and ask them what ideas they have for resolving the situation. Validate their ideas and praise their effort. LISTEN. (Don’t share your thoughts yet).
2) A “Let’s Chat” prompt that will help you chat with your teen about that scenario and consider various responses. Flip the card over and consider the idea on the back together. Is it helpful? Would it work? Why or why not? Can you improve on it? Then you can share your perspective.
Who are the Chat Cards for?
These cards can be used by families, teachers, and especially teens (and even tweens) on their own to understand difficult situations, develop new skills, and become more confident in using their phones for good. Use them to discuss a variety of potential scenarios and learn together.
What's included?
After purchase, you’ll receive a user name and password so you can log into my website and access the following 3 things:
- A zipped file 100 digital images. You’ll download these to your phone. When sorted in alphabetical order, they will alternate between the “front” of a card (scenario) and the “back” of a card (discussion prompts for that scenario).
- A pdf with 25 pages. Each page has 4 cards on it. and the pages alternate between the front and back. You can print on both sides, laminate them, and cut them in half each way to create 50 cards. *You’ll get a color version and a black-and-white version.
- A pdf with instructions on it. This includes the settings you’ll need when printing and instructions for downloading the Chat Cards to your iPhone or Android phone.
